Most couples decide to tie the knot because of love. They envision themselves doing things together, for better or worse, in sickness and in health. They see each other as an inspiration to be better and successful individuals. These couples dream the same dreams for their family.
A couple’s future successes are built on the foundation of the ideals that hold them together. If they decide to throw their dreams out just because things didn’t work out their way, most likely, their inspiration and teamwork will surely be gone too.
You can, however, still tweak it, polish the relationship, and turn it once again into a precious silver. It isn’t too late. Go back to that same love and dream.
It is usually the many time spent together that makes the relationship grow fonder and better. But when you feel that you are not the priority in the relationship, doubts surfaces.
But never doubt yourself. The silver lining of this situation is to see your worth. If you feel you aren't the priority anymore, love yourself and find your value. Be confident and spark joy. That same joy will never go unnoticed by your significant other. But if he failed to see your beauty, others will surely see it, and that would bring you to new experiences. Perhaps, that would mean you can now move on and meet that someone who would respect and see your worth.
Most relationships start with appreciation. Your partner sees something in you that is worthy of his respect. You opt to be a part of him because you feel the same way too. That admiration blossomed into love then into dreams.
And just like those dreams, love, and admiration, you have total control over your relationship. You may opt to leave, stay, or work things out. Having children may complicate things, but again, they shouldn’t be the reason for your confusion, martyrdom or staying.
Learn to see situations with a silver lining. Any trial may cause heartache, but there will always be a potentially positive aspect from it. If the beneficial aspect isn’t obvious, search for it. Or maybe, you need to open your eyes and accept that some tainted relationships can’t be saved by polishing. But you can polish yourself and let you shimmer more than ever like a precious silver.