MOMI MUSINGS/ pRegnancy loss

Apr 12, 2016 | Only Berlin

I have learned that when you had a miscarriage, you wouldn’t really feel extreme pain — very opposite from what we see in the movies and telenovelas.  Most actresses could not walk and would shout at the top of their lungs because of the pain.  In fact, in wanting to save the baby from unknown danger and harm, you could actually walk fast and bring yourself to the hospital.  Yes, even by yourself.  You would feel the stomach cramps after you have been admitted to the hospital.

Or maybe, my case was just too different.  From my experience though, I felt contraction but I have managed to tolerate the pain and distract myself of happy thoughts.  I imagined floating in the air with my three boys.   Imagined giggling with them.  And there would be no more pain.

I was also able to bring myself to the hospital.

* Last April 2013, I had missed abortion.  Three years after, we have a new baby at the small house.  Thank you, Lord, for this gift.

20 Comments

  1. Dominic Barrios

    Pregnancy loss is a really tough moment for couples. We already experienced it once when my wife was going 2 months pregnant. She had a bleeding and we had to have her checked up and learned that the baby didn’t grow too.

    After 3 months, we tried again and now she’s 9 weeks pregnant already. Thank God for these blessings. Congratulations too on your baby.

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    • msbolin

      I will include in my prayers the safety of your wife and baby until delivery. God is really good all the time. Thank you b

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  2. yogoandcream

    I’m still don’t know how miscarriage feels like, but I’m pretty sure that it hurts to lose the baby especially if couples have been trying to conceive for months or even years. It’s a good thing that you didn’t feel any pain during your pregnancy loss. Also, it’s a GREAT thing that you were blessed with a baby. Congratulations 🙂 -Me-An Clemente

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    • msbolin

      Thank you. The pain perhaps was bearable or I thought first on how to save my baby thus I didnt notice the pain.

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  3. Amazing Life Daily

    First of all, I am sorry for the loss. God does have a purpose for you. So I hope you and your husband are coping well.

    And I agree with you. When no one is around, you are going to surprise yourself because you will get things done such as getting youself to the hospital. If everyone could take inspiration, it would be setting out on what needs to be done with desperation and chances are, one will succeed.

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    • msbolin

      Husband and I are now enjoying our latest blessing – a baby boy. Thank you.

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  4. zioncampo

    I hope you’ve healed! Lossing something, especially losing a baby is hard. I don’t know how it feels but I do know you’re a strong person for having pushed through the challenge.

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    • msbolin

      Thank you. The memory is still there but God is good, he blesses us with a new baby:)

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  5. ASKSonnie

    God is good all the time. I’m happy for you two to be able to overcome such painful situation, and congrats for the new member of the family!

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    • msbolin

      Thank you. And the new member of our family is bringing so much join.

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  6. Clair Kelly

    I am very sorry that you had to go through this. But I am really glad that you have been blessed with a healthy baby. It is interesting to hear about your personal experience. I wish you and your family health and happiness

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    • msbolin

      Thank you for the well wishes. I also wish for your family’s health and happiness. Yes, we are truly grateful for God’s beautiful gift after that terrible stage in our life.

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  7. SofarsoSabine

    In movies everything looks more dramatic. That’s why it are movies. Maybe it’s emotionally very hard but the pain is maybe doable. I can’t tell. Stay strong and brave. This loss is part of your life and the little angel is watching you and protecting you.
    http://www.sofarsosabine.com

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    • msbolin

      Yes, we have an angel now watching over us. 🙂 thank you for the comforting words.

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  8. Veeyah

    I can’t say I know how you felt upon having a miscarriage, but I’m sure it was incredibly tough for you. The movies tend to exaggerate a LOT as we are well aware, but it’s a blessing on its own that you didn’t feel too much pain in the process. Congratulations on the new angel! The Lord blesses multiple times over. 🙂

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    • msbolin

      Yes indeed. God blesses multiple times super over!

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  9. Neri Ann

    I will never ever know if I can tolerate the pain of losing my baby! I just can’t. So I think for all the parents who loss their child along the way, it takes a lot of courage, a lot of time to forget and a lot of understanding for some people.

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    • msbolin

      An incident i wish not any mom would experience.

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  10. ram

    In every lost a new blessing comes along. First, great to hear about the good news you have with your little blessing. Secondly, thank you for enlightening us about that truth of miscarriage as seen in media . Lastly, I want to wish your family a wonderful day today and always.

    cheers! http://www.masterryo.wordpress.com

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    • msbolin

      Thank you. Here’s to wishing you, too, and your family a blessed day.

      Reply

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