My boys are growing up so fast and smart. They can now make their own decision as to what school club or community group to join. They prepare their school uniforms, groom themselves, and choose what clothes to wear to church service. They have the liberty to decide, and I could see that they enjoy that kind of privilege.
This school year, though I still prepare their lunch and recess, I give them their Wednesday to decide on what food to eat at school. They get to have their allowance.
An allowance, I believe, is a wise way to give the boys complete control over something and let them make their decisions. They can have burgers or fries or anything as long as they use their money to feed their stomachs and not their vices.