Uy wag mong murahin. Linisin mo na lang hehe. (Don’t curse. Clean the mess.) Told you he won’t change overnight or he won’t change period. Either you will accept, adjust, or kill yourself with anger.
Instead of properly addressing my concern, I turned to a friend to complain. Of course, she can’t do anything than comfort me. Perhaps comfort is what I need the most more than change. After all, they all say that you can’t train old dog new tricks.
I do not know how to put it nicely. I do not feel being nice either-
My husband grew up giving importance to putting food on the table first than cleaning the table. He isn’t at all bothered with any mess around.